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A traumedy about the trials and tribulations of people in their journeys of “escape”. Escape what, you ask? ALL the things! From trauma, crime, and unhealthy family cycles, to traffic and good deeds not going unpunished. Like we said—all the things! (Just tune in…you’ll understand.) Co-hosted by Julie Oberlander and Charity Doyle--the journalist and the rehabbed trainwreck--The Escape Pod aims to connect, educate, entertain, and humanize through the lens of lived experience.
Friday Aug 09, 2024
Friday Aug 09, 2024
Friday Aug 09, 2024
On this episode we take the Escape Pod across the pond and back in time to England in the 1800s, when being an unwed mother was frowned upon, but women in this situation had limited options to give their babies a better life. “Baby farmers” were like early versions of adoption agencies, but one such “farmer” was both greedy and mentally disturbed – a dangerous combination for the children entrusted to her care.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussion of crimes against children.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 3:35 Escaping projectile vomit
Topic #2 13:25 Introduction to Amelia Dyer
Topic #3 22:30 Amelia’s true crime revealed
Topic #4 37:12 The co-hosts escape, stock show-style!
Resources & Links
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amelia_Dyer
https://www.serialkillercalendar.com/Amelia%20Elizabeth%20DYER.php
https://the-line-up.com/amelia-dyer-baby-farmer
https://www.crimemuseum.org/crime-library/serial-killers/amelia-dyer/
https://www.thefamouspeople.com/profiles/amelia-dyer-34349.php
https://www.historynaked.com/amelia-dyer/
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Friday Aug 02, 2024
Friday Aug 02, 2024
Friday Aug 02, 2024
In June 2003, police in the UK respond to a report of a stabbing in an alleyway. The victim is a 14-year-old boy, the reporting person is his 16-year-old friend, and the perpetrator is described as a man in a hoodie, but video evidence later proves no such man exists.
The events leading up to this true crime are more bizarre than most soap opera story lines – with tales from a teen chatroom that include love, spies, secret codes, kidnapping, murder, and much more. Did anyone escape alive? Find out on this edition of The Escape Pod!
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 1:33 Escaping a fast ... and slow traffic
Topic #2 9:37 Introduction to a “bonkers” of a story
Topic #3 19:22 Introduction to best friend “Mark”
Topic #4 26:30 Red Flag #1: A person claiming to be a spy joins the chatroom
Topic #5 36:02 Mark gets his first big “assignment,” and it’s a doozy!
Topic #6 52:26 Escapism, co-host-style
Resources & Links
https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2005/02/bachrach200502
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/manchester/3758209.stm
https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/boy-planned-own-murder-on-internet-1110229
Casefile Presents 12/22/2018. Case 104: “Mark and John” https://podscripts.co/podcasts/casefile-true-crime/case-104-mark-john
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
Kids say the darnedest things? So do people coming out of crisis mode! Back by popular demand, podcast guest and OneHeart Transformation Director Chad Ratigan returns to the Escape Pod to share several true – and truly hilarious – comments he and his team have heard that came right out of left field.
DISCLAIMER: Content and language in this episode intended for a mature audience only. Also, these stories and comments are not shared to demean anyone, but – rather – to find a little “funny” in the extremely challenging work that is the human services field.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:13 Escaping heavy traffic, hurricanes, and “bugs”
Topic #2 8:27 Out of left field
Topic #3 28:09 Ghostly guest in the building? Leave no pregnant woman behind!
Topic #4 43:12 Raining cats and dogs? Not today!
Topic #5 50:25 Escapism, co-host-style!
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Friday Jul 19, 2024
Friday Jul 19, 2024
Friday Jul 19, 2024
In 2023, 92% of people responding to a survey on road rage said they had witnessed at least one act of road rage during the previous year. Some of these incidents end without consequence; others have fatal results.
On this episode of The Escape Pod, co-hosts Charity and Julie try to keep their cool as they take on a topic that gets almost every driver revved up at one point in time or another!
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 9:23 Scary road rage stats
Topic #2 11:32 June 2017: A man jockeying for position on a Pennsylvania highway fires a gun at a teen driver
Topic #3 17:52 Co-hosts become “mama bears” when dealing with dangerous drivers
Topic #4 25:39 A woman waiting to make a left turn honks at the person in front of her and gets an unusual – but pretty hilarious – response
Topic #5 37:35 Road “rouge” explained!
Resources & Links
Vince Lattanzio. 12/13/2018. https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/national-international/man-killed-teen-road-rage-shooting-sentenced/206687/
Ron Shaffer. 04/02/2000. https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/2000/04/03/a-strange-case-of-road-rage-with-a-lesson-learned/cc408818-59c8-4841-904b-ea64999a9dda/
https://www.thezebra.com/resources/research/road-rage-statistics/
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Friday Jul 12, 2024
Friday Jul 12, 2024
Friday Jul 12, 2024
A child plays dead to escape his mother’s abusive grip; a woman plays dead and likely escapes a serial killer; a student plays dead to escape a gunman in her classroom. Conscious decision or simply the body’s primitive response to danger? On this episode of The Escape Pod, the co-hosts discuss true stories of people who “played possum” - pretending to be dead – to escape horrific situations and how, in these cases, that response was likely their key to survival.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 6:08 Co-hosts shares story of “freezing” in traumatic situation
Topic #2 16:53 10-year-old boy plays dead to escape his mom’s abuse
Topic #3 21:12 Shop owner plays dead to escape gunman
Topic #4 31:11 11-year-old plays dead to escape school shooter
Topic #5 37:55 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
https://lawandcrime.com/crime/10-year-old-boy-decided-to-play-dead-after-mom-allegedly-doused-him-with-bleach-and-tried-to-drown-him-in-bathtub-cops/
https://people.com/boy-played-dead-survive-alleged-drowning-attempt-mother-police-say-8639764
https://www.waaytv.com/news/sheffield-woman-indicted-on-aggravated-child-abuse-charge/article_18a8e744-117a-11ef-8ee2-b7485c7176c7.html
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-70_killer
https://nypost.com/2023/07/16/i-70-serial-killers-lone-survivor-played-dead-to-save-her-life/
https://www.firstalert4.com/2022/02/28/news-4-exclusive-possible-lone-survivor-i-70-serial-killer-speaks-up-after-30-years/
https://www.cnn.com/2022/05/27/us/robb-shooting-survivor-miah-cerrillo/index.html
https://www.cbsnews.com/texas/news/uvalde-school-shooting-survivors-miah-cerrillo-khloie-torres-awarded-for-courage/
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Friday Jul 05, 2024
Friday Jul 05, 2024
Friday Jul 05, 2024
A teenager confesses to shooting a man outside a nightclub. A woman confesses to stabbing her elderly landlord to death. A man confesses to killing his father, even though he can’t remember doing it. Different situations, different cities, different years – all with one thing in common: in every case, the confession was coerced. Call it “crisis brain” in full force!
So ... how did these suspects escape their own false confessions? And how long did it take for the truth to come out? Find out in this episode of The Escape Pod!
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 00:54
Escaping weird tics and terrifying drivers!
Topic #2 12:20
Wisconsin, 2018: An 18-year-old becomes a shooting suspect
Topic #3 18:15
New York, 1995: A tenant and would-be informant becomes the suspect in her landlord’s fatal stabbing
Topic #4 28:19
California, 2018: Man’s father goes for a walk but doesn’t return
Topic #5 38:01
Co-hosts' final thoughts on coerced confessions
Resources & Links
Tony Saavedra. May 23, 2024. https://www.sbsun.com/2024/05/23/fontana-pays-nearly-900000-for-psychological-torture-inflicted-by-police-to-get-false-confession/
KC Baker. May, 28, 2024. https://people.com/man-coerced-confessing-murdering-father-father-was-alive-8654832
https://www.birdsall-law.com/false-confessions-the-eddie-gill-case
https://www.forensicmag.com/609996-Coerced-Confession-Evidence-Withholding-Renay-Lynch-is-Exonerated-26-Years-Later/
https://innocenceproject.org/renay-lynch-is-exonerated-after-nearly-26-years-of-wrongful-conviction-in-buffalo-new-york/
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Friday Jun 28, 2024
Friday Jun 28, 2024
Friday Jun 28, 2024
Roughly 30 years ago, escape artist Teri and her husband were thrilled to become the new owners of a “really cute” house in central California when they successfully bid on a foreclosed property. Little did they know they already had house guests – the unwelcome kind known in legal terms as “squatters.”
In this episode of The Escape Pod, Teri offers up a hilarious account of their escape from the squatters. But first, co-host Charity explains the difference between squatting and trespassing and highlights a separate, more recent case in California – with much more serious consequences.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:30 While one co-host escapes a drunk driver, the other barely escapes a wave of Powerade rushing through her car.
Topic #2 15:20 Squatting vs. Trespassing
Topic #3 19:51 California, October 2021: A 71-year-old man is reported missing by a concerned neighbor; authorities start to investigate the woman living in his home.
Topic #4 39:44 Teri’s escape from squatters
Topic #5 58:50 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
Story Sources:
Brittny Mejia. March 18, 2024. https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2024-03-18/she-sold-his-encino-home-out-from-under-him-for-1-5-million-then-he-killed-himself
Yaron Steinbuch. March 25, 2024. https://nypost.com/2024/03/25/us-news/squatter-left-dead-mans-body-in-luxury-la-home-in-elaborate-scheme-to-take-over-property/
March 18, 2024. https://www.justice.gov/usao-cdca/pr/west-hills-woman-who-disposed-one-victims-body-sentenced-20-years-federal-prison
https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/66735202/united-states-v-herrling/
Squatter Information:
Gemma Smith. November 21, 2023. https://www.azibo.com/blog/creative-ways-to-get-rid-of-squatters#:~:text=Property%20owners%20and%20property%20managers,if%20they%20refuse%20to%20leave
https://www.steadily.com/blog/south-dakota-squatters-rights-laws#:~:text=What%20duration%20of%20occupancy%20is,10%2Dyear%20duration%20is%20required
Giulia Carbanero. March 26, 2024. https://www.newsweek.com/how-squatters-rights-compare-different-states-1883480
Vivian Tejada. March 8, 2024. https://www.azibo.com/blog/squatters-rights
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Friday Jun 21, 2024
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Friday Jun 21, 2024
A 12-year-old escape artist knocks on a neighbor’s door and politely requests that the man take him to a police station. Soon, the boy’s mom and her friend/therapist/business partner are arrested and charged with multiple counts of felony child abuse. But just a few years prior, this same mom was gaining notoriety (and 2.5 MILLION followers) on YouTube, in part, for her parenting style.
What happened?! How many steps are there between “disciplinarian” and straight-up “abuser”? Was the influencer being influenced in all the wrong ways? There’s plenty to discuss about this relatively recent true crime tragedy, so jump into the Escape Pod with co-hosts Julie and Charity, and – spoiler alert! - don’t bail early because this episode does, in fact, end on a funny note that ensures we keep the “comedy” in “traumedy.”
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains content about severe physical and emotional abuse committed against children.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:40 Co-host offers update on parental drama of her own
Topic #2 13:13 Introduction to “NOT Mother of the Year” Ruby Franke
Topic #3 21:50 A child’s escape leads to two women’s arrests
Topic #4 35:10 In custody, Ruby admits to many of her abusive acts
Topic #5 52:30 Where’s the kids’ dad?
Topic #6 1:03:35 Gigglefest 2024: Co-hosts react to one hubby’s hilarious reply to the question, “How much over par are you?”
Resources & Links
https://www.thecut.com/article/ruby-franke-utah-mommy-vlogger-pleads-guilty-to-child-abuse.html
https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/ruby-franke-sentence-child-abuse-mommy-vlogger-rcna139627
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruby_Franke#:~:text=5%20References,Career,and%20amassed%201%20billion%20views
https://apnews.com/article/ruby-franke-youtube-child-abuse-sentencing-4f4985c1cab9243d4eaf8b6a58f087ed
Law and Crime Sidebar with Jesse Weber https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmO78ryTM1g and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ier97z_WRcM
https://wegotthiscovered.com/youtube/what-are-the-ages-of-ruby-frankes-kids/
https://www.google.com/search?q=ruby+franke&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS858US858&oq=ruby+fr&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqDQgAEAAY4wIYsQMYgAQyDQgAEAAY4wIYsQMYgAQyCggBEC4YsQMYgAQyBggCEEUYOTINCAMQABiDARixAxiABDINCAQQABiDARixAxiABDINCAUQABiDARixAxiABDIGCAYQABgDMgYIBxBFGDyoAgCwAgA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:c2a5b6a0,vid:OoBAUOrtUds,st:0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGcpOhlKL_w
https://jodihildebrandt.com/reviews/
https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/News/niece-jodi-hildebrandt-ruby-frankes-business-partner-speaks/story?id=103751750
https://pagesix.com/2023/09/12/niece-of-jodi-hildebrandt-claims-they-were-duct-taped-by-terrifying-aunt/
https://lawandcrime.com/sidebar-podcast/it-was-torture-niece-of-ruby-franke-supporter-jodi-hildebrandt-opens-up-about-alleged-child-abuse/
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/ruby-franke-jodi-hildebrandt-sentenced-child-abuse-youtube-eight-passengers/
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Join co-hosts Charity Doyle and Julie Oberlander, along with occasional guests, as they laugh (and cry) their way through past traumas and give tips to getting through tough times.
Life is full of ups and downs and it takes you to crazy places and we need each other to make it through.
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