A traumedy about the trials and tribulations of people in their journeys of “escape”. Escape what, you ask? ALL the things! From trauma, crime, and unhealthy family cycles, to traffic and good deeds not going unpunished. Like we said—all the things! (Just tune in…you’ll understand.) Co-hosted by Julie Oberlander and Charity Doyle--the journalist and the rehabbed trainwreck--The Escape Pod aims to connect, educate, entertain, and humanize through the lens of lived experience.
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27 minutes ago
Involuntarily celibate. It could be fodder for a standup comedian, but these days, self-proclaimed “InCels” and the InCel Movement are no joke – even landing on Secret Service threat lists. Join co-hosts Julie and Charity back in The Escape Pod to wrap up a two-part series on extreme misogyny and an online community that poses a clear and present danger to the women they hate.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains violence and other content listeners might find extremely disturbing.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 :59 Escaping expensive habits
Topic #2 9:45 Intro to the InCel Movement
Topic #3 14:14 The young man who inspired the movement
Topic #5 30:00 Center for Countering Digital Hate’s analyses of online posts
Topic #6 38:37 OneHeart “Woohoos of the Week”!
Resources & Links
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-43892189
8/13/21. Jonathan Griffin. https://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-44053828
3/1/24. Phil Helsel. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ohio-incel-plotted-kill-women-college-sentenced-6-years-prison-rcna141473
9/23/22. Taylor Lorenz. https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/09/22/incels-rape-murder-study/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Bianca_Devins
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elliot_Rodger
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-56269095
https://www.the-independent.com/news/uk/plymouth-shooting-jake-davidson-inqquest-b2263774.html
12/12/2022. Tim Stelloh. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ohio-incel-plotted-slaughter-women-pleads-guilty-attempted-hate-crime-rcna51812
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Friday Nov 29, 2024
Friday Nov 29, 2024
Ten years before the word “Columbine” became synonymous with school shootings in America, a young man in Canada carried out a massacre at a college in Montreal. His motive? An extreme hatred for women, whom he thought were “stealing men’s jobs.” This tale of true crime happened in 1989, but the perpetrator’s attitude toward the female sex – unfortunately – is alive and well in some male circles today. This trip into The Escape Pod is the first in a two-part series on extreme misogyny and a little-known but highly dangerous online community of women-hating men, known as “InCels.”
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains violence and other content listeners might find extremely disturbing.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:51 When misogyny reaches a whole new level.
Topic #2 8:38 The perpetrator’s background.
Topic #3 17:24 The day of the massacre.
Topic #5 32:00 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2019/dec/04/mass-shooting-1989-montreal-14-women-killed
https://theconversation.com/the-montreal-massacre-is-finally-recognized-as-an-anti-feminist-attack-128450
12/07/2019. James Morgan. https://www.northcountrypublicradio.org/news/story/40106/20191207/three-decades-since-the-cole-polytechnique-mass-shooting-in-montr-al
https://criminalminds.fandom.com/wiki/Marc_L%C3%A9pine
By unknown - http://www.philo5.com/Textes-references/LepineMarc_TexteIntegralDeSaLettre_891206.htm, Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=16837530
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Friday Nov 22, 2024
Friday Nov 22, 2024
We are feasting on family dysfunction in The Escape Pod this week, as true crime takes on a holiday twist. (Special thanks to Reddit for giving generously content-wise, coming through BIG for the co-hosts when one asked the other, “Do you think you could find some good stories about holiday dinners gone wrong?” Indeed, she did!)
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 :52 Escaping arthritis, a wonky earlobe, and a wrong-way driver.
Topic #2 19:29 Intro to true crime, Thanksgiving-style!
Topic #3 33:04 Hostess requests reimbursement.
Topic #4 47:53 Holiday-inspired headlines!
Topic #5 58:35 Escaping the real world for rock concerts.
Resources & Links
https://aezoutbailbonds.com/10-of-the-wildest-thanksgiving-day-crimes-that-ever-took-place/
Ross Yoder. 11/23/23. https://www.buzzfeed.com/rossyoder/thanksgiving-horror-stories
https://www.ranker.com/list/people-recall-awkward-thanksgiving_dinners/samantha-dillinger
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Friday Nov 15, 2024
Friday Nov 15, 2024
A female runner stops for a bathroom break and gets attacked from behind. Little did the predator know that he did not choose easy prey. Kelly Herron said, “Not today, mother f@#!er!” and she meant it, fighting back successfully in that moment and then starting a whole movement around her now-famous line. Join the co-hosts in The Escape Pod this week for an episode featuring true crime, a truly incredible escape artist, and tips from self-defense experts who want to give you a fighting chance, too.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 :49 Co-host escapes a stinky situation.
Topic #2 8:57 Intro to Kelly’s story of escape.
Topic #3 23:31 Tips Kelly learned in self-defense class that saved her.
Topic #4 40:26 Advocate for following one’s intuition offers tactics to stay safe.
Topic #5 51:41 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
https://www.girlswhofight.co/post/the-survival-signals-that-indicate-danger-the-gift-of-fear-by-gavin-de-becker
Jan 6, 2020. Caitlyn Pilkington. https://www.womensrunning.com/culture/assault-survivor-kelly-herron-story/
April 14, 2019. Maggie Ryan. https://hellogiggles.com/self-defense-moves-escape-attacker/
https://www.popsugar.com/fitness/kelly-herron-sexual-assault-story-45966885
https://www.crime-safety-security.com/Self-Defense.html
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Friday Nov 08, 2024
Friday Nov 08, 2024
A woman is brutally attacked and murdered in her Ohio home in 1998. The only witness? Her 6-year-old granddaughter, whose eye-witness account helps to convict her “Uncle Clarence.” But Clarence’s wife is certain he didn’t commit the crime, and she makes it her mission to prove it.
Join co-hosts Julie and Charity in the Escape Pod this week, where a wife’s amateur sleuth skills help an innocent man escape a life sentence.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 :35 Escaping bad backs, bladders, and bedtime habits.
Topic #2 9:19 Escaping prison – but not in the way you think!
Topic #3 24:47 The mind playing tricks with memories.
Topic #4 30:19 Our OneHeart “Woohoo of the Week!”
Resources & Links
https://video.hipstr.tv/feature/conviction-true-story-clarence-elkins
https://innocenceproject.org/cases/clarence-elkins/#:~:text=On%20December%2015%2C%202005%2C%20a,crime%20he%20did%20not%20commit
https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/politics/2015/06/02/wrongfully-convicted-man-challenges-ohio/23718232007/
https://www.law.umich.edu/special/exoneration/Pages/casedetail.aspx?caseid=3202#:~:text=Early%20on%20the%20morning%20of,raped%20and%20left%20for%20dead
https://www.law.umich.edu/special/exoneration/Pages/casedetail.aspx?caseid=3202
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Friday Nov 01, 2024
Friday Nov 01, 2024
Good kid, model student, high achiever – just a few of the descriptors bestowed on Sidney Powell during her high school years in Ohio. But college proved much more challenging, and some theorize that – rather than face her academic failures – Sidney turned on one of the people who loved her most. Is she a stone-cold murderer, or a young woman who suffered a mental break? On this episode of the Escape Pod, the co-hosts dive into a deep discussion about the desire to be perfect, and how that very mindset can be perfectly dangerous.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:00 Trying to escape our own negative thoughts
Topic #2 14:46 Introduction to Sidney Powell
Topic #3 26:45 A blood-curdling phone call
Topic #4 32:28 A father speaks out
Topic #5 42:45 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ff3spm-V-8Q Law & Crime Network “Killer Daughter Beat, Stabbed Mom to Death to Cover Up College Failures”
https://lawandcrime.com/crime/woman-who-beat-her-mom-with-skillet-stabbed-her-in-neck-nearly-30-times-to-conceal-suspension-from-college-is-sentenced-for-murder/
https://www.beaconjournal.com/story/news/2023/10/19/sydney-powell-convicted-stabbing-death-mother-brenda-powell-akron-ohio-insanity-plea/71238220007/
https://people.com/sydney-powell-ohio-college-student-killed-mom-7972815
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goreXfyTaqY Crime Salad “The Murder of Brenda Powell”
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Friday Oct 25, 2024
Friday Oct 25, 2024
Hop in for a Halloween-inspired edition of the Escape Pod! This week, we turn up the volume on unexplained (and very eerie) encounters with people or things seemingly from “the beyond.” A deep-breathing, bodiless man? A spirit hell-bent on having clean hands? A ghost cat? Who knows?! But if you’re up for a (mostly) mild scare with a good dose of traumedy, then this episode is for you!
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 1:13 Co-host goes on ghost tour.
Topic #2 13:27 Meditating ghost gets caught on tape.
Topic #3 17:36 Strange encounter following fatal crash has lasting impact.
Topic #4 34:27 Child gets the last laugh.
Topic #5 39:50 Ghost cat haunts a coffee shop? Maybe!
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Friday Oct 18, 2024
Friday Oct 18, 2024
Open the “Can’t Make It Up” file, please! The Escape Pod takes a turn toward the lighthearted this week, as special guest (and Charity’s husband) Lt. Tim returns to the pod to share tales of true crime that will “crack” you up – in more ways than one!
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:27 Escaping the responsibilities of parenthood and computer pop-ups.
Topic #2 9:52 Man tries to pull himself up by the beltloops.
Topic #3 26:14 Water “rescues”? Not exactly.
Topic #4 36:47 Meet the Parents: Police Edition.
Topic #5 51:35 Common misconceptions about law enforcement’s use of force.
Topic #6 1:02:27 Foot pursuit ends with a fall, then another fall, and another ...
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