A traumedy about the trials and tribulations of people in their journeys of “escape”. Escape what, you ask? ALL the things! From trauma, crime, and unhealthy family cycles, to traffic and good deeds not going unpunished. Like we said—all the things! (Just tune in…you’ll understand.) Co-hosted by Julie Oberlander and Charity Doyle--the journalist and the rehabbed trainwreck--The Escape Pod aims to connect, educate, entertain, and humanize through the lens of lived experience.
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9 hours ago
9 hours ago
In 2022, the “self-help” industry in the U.S. alone raked in more than $13B. (That’s BILLION, with a capital B.) There is no shame in wanting to better oneself – personally, professionally, or both. What is shameful is taking advantage of those people who seek self-improvement. Adherents of such programs often expect (and pay big money) to be challenged physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. But self-help gurus operate in a largely unregulated space, and that can – and has – had fatal consequences. The Escape Pod takes an interesting turn this week, as one co-host shares her own experiences with an ungodly guru whose brazen actions pushed his followers much, much too far.
BE ADVISED: This episode contains mature language and disturbing descriptions of victims in their final moments of a “retreat” gone wrong.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 7:50 Escaping false gurus
Topic #2 20:21 What makes a guru a guru?
Topic #3 34:02 Main event at JAR’s October 2009 retreat ends in tragedy
Topic #4 42:41 July 2009: Woman dies during different JAR retreat
Topic #5 1:06:08 Red flags to watch for with self-help gurus/programs
Resources & Links
Kirby Brown Credit: AP
Liz Neuman Credit: AP
James Shore Credit: AP:Associated Press
Self-Improvement Market Statistics 1
Self-Improvement Market Statistics 2
James Arthur Ray, Disgraced Self-Help Guru, Still Hopes To 'Enlighten Us'
Self-help Guru at Center of Park Rapids Woman's Suicide
Dozens Injured After Walking on Hot Coals at Tony Robbins Event
Disgraced Self-Help Guru Still Hopes to ‘Enlighten Us’
A Good Day to Die
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7 days ago
7 days ago
It’s not exactly “breaking news.” America has an obesity problem, and we all know it. But, historically speaking, it is a relatively new problem that dates back only about 50 years. That’s when some of the biggest food companies in the world got very smart about how to keep customers coming back for more ... and more ... and more. How? By using incredibly effective formulas to create “hyper-palatable” foods. Hop into The Escape Pod for an episode that is heavy on food for thought, but also on belly laughs – courtesy of those who failed to escape the lure of some “sugar free” foods and lived to tell about their not-so-savory side effects.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 9:30 Trying to escape Big Food’s tactics
Topic #2 24:03 The truth about sugar
Topic #3 36:37 "Sugar free” food reviews
Topic #4 47:25 The push for more transparency
Resources & Links
“Why can't we stop eating certain foods?” - BBC: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_03EXyhYS8
U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics: Data on the average increase in food prices in 2023
Center for Science in the Public Interest: Insights into the prevalence of added sugars in products labeled as “natural.”
National Institutes of Health: Brain responses triggered by hyper-palatable foods
Cornucopia Institute: Ownership of organic brands by major food corporations.
FDA: Information on food labeling regulations and the Fair and Accurate Ingredient Representation on Labels Act of 2024
National Agricultural Law Center: Details on the compliance date for new food labeling regulations
European Food Safety Authority: Banning of certain food additives in the EU that are still allowed in the U.S.
Sentient Media: Misleading nature of terms like “natural” and “sugar-free.”
Consumer Reports: Examples of misleading labels and their implications
New York Post: Highlighted consumer perceptions of misleading food labels
How Tobacco Companies Made Foods Hyper-Palatable
Misleading Food Labels
Dr. Phil: The Conspiracy of Food - How Big Companies Manipulate Your Brain
Other Names for Sugar
Philip Morris Tobacco Company History
“Big Food” Is Making America Sick
USDA Recommended Daily Sugar Intake
About Altria
Food Additives Banned in Europe
Amazon Gummy Bear Review
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Friday Mar 21, 2025
Friday Mar 21, 2025
Even with morning sickness and other side effects, the nine months of anticipating a newborn baby is often an exciting and joyful time for women. But for those in dysfunctional or – worse – abusive relationships, that nine months can be traumatizing and potentially dangerous. Research shows that homicide is among the leading causes of death for pregnant and postpartum women, but some states still have laws that prevent couples from divorcing if the wife is pregnant. Lawmakers may have good intentions in keeping these laws on the books, but the unintended consequences can be serious – even fatal. The co-hosts take a closer look at the scary statistics in this edition of The Escape Pod.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 5:25 Intro to topic: Escaping pregnancy-related divorce bans
Topic #2 12:40 States that prevent divorce during pregnancy
Topic #3 21:31 What a wife (and wanna-be escape artist) can do
Topic #4 36:12 The unintended consequences of eliminating ‘no-fault’ divorce
Topic #5 39:10 Destiny’s story
Resources & Links
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2024/12/09/opinion/pregnant-women-homicide.html
Pregnant Women in Missouri Can't Get Divorced
Pregnant Women Living in States with Limited Access to Abortion Face Higher Levels of Intimate Partner Homicide
Homicide Found to Be Top Cause of Maternal Death
Homicide is a Leading Cause of Death in Pregnant Women in the US
Pregnancy-associated Homicides on the Rise in the United States
March of Dimes Peristats
Missouri, Arkansas, Texas, Arizona Rarely Finalize Divorce During Pregnancy | Fact check
Pregnant Survivors Forced to Stay Married in These States
Attacks on No-Fault Divorce Are Dangerous – Especially for Those Experiencing Domestic Violence
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Friday Mar 14, 2025
Friday Mar 14, 2025
A marriage license before a driver’s license? In some states in the U.S. – YES – it's totally legal, even today. And if you think these unions are simply young lovers who can’t wait to “make it official,” think again. Research shows 86% of childhood marriages involve girls married to adult men, and in many of those cases, the age difference is vast. The co-hosts take a closer look at the stats and share true stories of truly criminal marriages in this edition of The Escape Pod.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 3:21 Intro to topic: escaping childhood/forced marriages
Topic #2 9:40 Categories of laws that allow for childhood marriages
Topic #3 24:16 Breakdown of childhood marriage stats
Topic #4 30:57 Survivors’ stories
Topic #5 46:14 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
I was a child bride at 15 & forced to marry 30-year-old man by my own dad - I was raped everyday to get me pregnant | The US Sun
Digital Content - Unchained At Last
Child Marriage: A Violation of Child Rights | Save The Children
Understanding forced and child marriage | Walk Free
Child USA: Report on Childhood Marriage Data and Law
Bill to End Childhood Marriage in SD Clears First Hurdle
Photo credit: Lorna Roach
Miss Galaxy Contest Photo
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Friday Mar 07, 2025
Friday Mar 07, 2025
Raped. Stabbed. Disemboweled. Nearly beheaded. How could anyone survive such an attack? The co-hosts take The Escape Pod back to December 1994, when a young woman in South Africa was kidnapped, brutally assaulted, and left for dead on a dirty beach. But when this escape artist decided to live, she went “all in.” Now – more than 30 years later – her story and drive to survive continue to inspire people around the world.
BE ADVISED: This episode includes discussion of kidnapping, rape, and other violent acts, as well as graphic details of the survivor’s injuries.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 3:52 Escape artist update
Topic #2 10:32 Introducing Alison Botha
Topic #3 24:50 Good Samaritan comes to the rescue
Topic #4 40:03 The healing journey begins
Resources & Links
Facebook: Alison Botha with Tiaan Eilerd, the man who rescued her.
The Attack and Incredible Survival of Alison Botha
“Do You Think She’s Dead?”: Inside the Incredible Survival Story of Alison Botha”
Alison’s Attackers Granted Parole
Attackers’ Parole Revoked
Minister of Correctional Services cancels parole for Alison Botha's attackers
Alison Documentary by Uga Carlini (Amazon Prime)
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Friday Feb 28, 2025
Friday Feb 28, 2025
A 2nd grader sends nude photos to a stranger online. How? Why? Who or what could compel a child to do such a thing? It happens, and it happens far more often than most people realize, according to a forensic examiner and veteran member of the Internet Crimes Against Children (ICAC) Task Force in South Dakota. Think she’s exaggerating? Consider this: The Internet Watch Foundation reported a 360% increase in “self-generated” sexual imagery of 7- to 10-year-olds from 2020 to 2022.
As a parent, what you don’t know CAN hurt you, and – worse than that – it can hurt your kids. ICAC’s Hollie Strand joins the co-hosts in The Escape Pod this week for a tough but truthful conversation about the very real dangers children and teens face in the digital world and the steps parents can take to better prepare and protect the people they love. If you’re a parent, hope to be one in the future, or simply care about the health and well-being of children in your community, this is an episode you can’t skip.
BE ADVISED: This episode contains extremely disturbing discussion about child sexual abuse materials and child exploitation.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 4:23 Lessons learned from online shopping scams
Topic #2 8:31 How Hollie got into the ICAC field
Topic #3 16:53 Digital advertising explained
Topic #4 33:35 The importance of supervising kids’ communication
Topic #5 52:31 Hollie shares how she protects her own mental health in her job
Topic #6 1:08:31 Lightening things up with talk of chickens, hair dye, and free time
Resources & Links
Gabb devices: https://gabb.com/
Bark: https://www.bark.us/learn/home/
https://www.weprotect.org/wp-content/uploads/Global-Threat-Assessment-2023-English.pdf
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Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
The Escape Pod observes Black History Month this February with a tale of true crime out of the Depression-era Deep South. Nine Black teenagers traveling by train found themselves caught in the middle of hate and lies, giving new meaning to the phrase “wrong time, wrong place.” Initially accused of assault for a rock-throwing fight, they instead spent years defending rape charges. Even after one accuser recanted, the accused couldn’t escape punishment. Travel back in time to learn their ultimate fates in this edition of The Escape Pod.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 2:42 Escaping TLC that is not really TLC
Topic #2 9:31 Recognizing Black History Month on The EP
Topic #3 30:14 The long-term impact of terrible lies
Topic #4 47:40 Consequences for the accusers? Take a guess!
Topic #5 51:31 Escapism, co-host-style!
Resources & Links
The Scottsboro Boys Surrounded by Armed White Officers
The Smithsonian: Save the Scottsboro Boys
The Saga of the Scottsboro Boys
PBS: Who Were the Scottsboro Boys?
UMKC School of Law: The Trials of the “Scottsboro Boys”
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Friday Feb 14, 2025
Friday Feb 14, 2025
A day set aside to celebrate love and romance ... what could possibly go wrong?! You know as well as we do, A LOT can go wrong on Valentine’s Day. Hop into The Escape Pod for a light-hearted episode about Valentine’s Day plans gone awry and gifts that left a lot to be desired.
Bullet Points of Key Topics and Markers:
Topic #1 4:07 The co-hosts share their views on Valentine’s Day
Topic #2 9:31 Valentine’s Day stories: The good, the bad, and the funny
Topic #3 18:28 The very dark history of the holiday
Topic #4 27:55 Co-host's 20-year-old self ‘makes her move’ on Valentine’s Day
Resources & Links
The Origins of Valentine’s Day
The Dark Origins of Valentine’s Day
The Real History of Valentine’s Day Will Definitely Surprise You
10 Bizarre Facts About Valentine’s Day
Hilarious Valentine’s Stories
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